Taking dating slow
It’s the biggest mistake women make, and you need to stop it – right now!– and start dating many men at the same time until you have the commitment you want from the man who is right for you.We give away our exclusivity before a man gives us the commitment we want.When we close off our options with other men too soon, we actually sabotage our ability to get the commitment and intimacy we so desire.Instead, keep your options open to keep your sanity and remind him that you are a prize to be won.
Make it a point to spend time with friends and to enjoy the time you have by yourself. Having an active life will provide plenty of conversation material when you do have your dates. Taking the time to determine if the two of you have similar goals for the future can go a long way toward helping you decide if you will be a good match in the long term, according to Susan Krauss Whitbourne, psychology professor at the University of Massachusetts Amherst.
Stop yourself from making contact every time the desire strikes.